As time goes by..
We began to work on this commemorative web-site a few months after Sunder’s passing. Our nephew Balaji (Narayanan Srivatsan) and our friend Kaushik Raha had worked hard to get it ready in time for its ‘inauguration’ at a gathering in Sunder’s memory in New York in March 2015. Earlier this year (2017) we had the web-site re-designed, and added to it a few more pieces of information, a few more late-arriving eulogies and a few more photographs. It is comforting to think of this as an evolving, open-ended project, one which we can change or add to over the years; it is not a memorial that will gather dust.
We hope that this section will serve as a blog for anything you would like to share—reminiscences of Sunder, photographs, reflections — drawing on memory, archives, your reading…For our part we will post, on an occasional basis, our thoughts, news, and our never-ending discoveries about Sunder.
July 17is the anniversary of Sunder’s passing, hard as it is to believe that it is now three years since he left us. We reproduce below some notes marking the passage of time.
–Raji and Kaushik
July 17, 2017
Kaushik’s first anniversary note
Loyola College 1966 Annual magazine
Indu writes: ‘Such was his meticulousness that he signed every single book for me’
July 17, 2020
Sunder’s sixth anniversary. Raji painted this for the occasion, from a photograph taken by their close friend Elaine Freedgood.
On July 27, 2019 August 2019 the extended family of Sri A.V. Ramalinga Iyer got together to commemorate his life. AVR was Sunder’s great-grandfather on his mother’s side.
In 2020 we lost two of Sunder’s beloved aunts, Meena periamma and Sundari chitti.
July 17, 2021
Sunder’s seventh anniversary. It has been a long and difficult year, through the pandemic, filled with loss for so many families. We lost two people who were beloved to Sunder, S. Venkatraman and Ameeruddin Ahmad. We miss them both, deeply.